Truthfully


LOVE...

Love is an action word, "you do". The need to feel like your partner needs to do something to make you feel good is an indication that we are broken ourselves. We are looking for someone broken, to make us feel good about what we are yearning, whereas they, themselves are travelling through the journey of  life to make them feel good about their broken selves.

We are a needy generation, and we are trying to feel our void with the wrong thing. Love serves. You do your part without expecting the same in return. You may be suprised that all your sowing will turn into something great that you never had in mind. Some enter the next relationship while they are still on the rebound. They enter while they are still broken and unsure if they are truly ready.

When one is completely healed from the past, one is able to love without dragging the past into the current. There is no fun in not trusting in a relationship. Trying to find something wrong is an indication that one is not healed and it kills the aroma of that relationship. Heal before you move on, confront your demons and kill them, otherwise you are going to see the same thing happening because you've built it already in your mind. Let go of fear and choose love.

I used to believe in the myths that our society fill us with. That if love is meant to be true love, than it mustn't be a struggle, it must be easy, they should get you, understand you, read you, you must connect instantly but life is the greatest teacher and our personal experiences are definitely not the same but most hold the same lessons. Love will be great one moment that we feel like we are in heaven, the next we feel like we can't take it anymore, we are suffocating, we need space.

But if our feelings change just like that, how sure are we with the decisions we make. Because we have a misconception of what love is, its definitely is not a feeling, its not trying to change another so we can be comfortable.

When I fell in love, it was like a dream come true.


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