THE SALT & PEPPER STONE





My dream engagement ring…

While cuddling last night with my partner, we had an amazing conversation about “engagement rings”. Till recently, I have always said, that I don’t have a specific ring I would really love for our engagement and wedding.  I mean, I knew I wanted a diamond, silver, not a big stone. You know the usual for a simply girl. I am not a jewelry person, and wearing a heavy stone on my finger for the rest of my life, its not my me.

The more I thought about this ring business, I thought hard. I mean, something that one will wear everyday should have a meaning, right? It should have memories behind it,  and a  meaning for the couple.

I started thinking about our journey as a couple. We have been together for so long, loving, hating and loving each other all over again. My partner would say that “we have literally loved each other through thick and thin” , and I agree. Our love does not die, but grows. Just like any other couples no diamond is perfect.

We called ourselves a “Salt & Pepper” couple, our friends calls us “Black & Yellow” couple. So I thought, why not go for a SALT & PEPPER DIAMOND? They usually contain flaws.  We both have flaws, imperfections, we have our good and bad days, and yet we can be wild & raw, wicked & weird, mysterious, simplistic yet sophisticated, versatile and smokey, but mostly our love remains stronger than before.

Salt and pepper diamond reminds us to look past our problems, to look past what we have been through and focus on our love and future. To love each other no matter what been through, and to talk about everything. We have grown with each other, and we are more matured

than when we met. We have goals and dreams together. I believe that we will have a warm home for our children and full of love, TILL DEATH DO US APART.



(please do leave a comment, every comment will help me grow as a blogger. Thanks.)

Comments

Post a Comment

Thank you for visiting, will get back to you shortly.



"Nothing is impossible when we follow our inner guidance" - G Jampsolsky.

Popular posts from this blog

The greatest experience.

Image
MEDITATING... I started Max Meditation last year when my Goddesses and gods from Egypt came to visit South Africa. I had no experience didn't even know what to expect or how to act. Had been postponing this for years until I had no reason to.  I was going through some deep issues in my life, and this invitation came at the right time.  I finally decided that I needed something to free my thoughts.  I spent a lot of the time training my focus on breathing, body relaxation and thoughts. Great focus is needed as the feelings do not just stop wondering  but your aim is to focus, to feel, to listen.  I have learnt the benefits of Max Meditation. Its takes over your body, reduces stress and anxiety. Increases mental clarity and focus. Deals with emotional, intelligence and triggers the brain relaxation.  New Moons Max Meditation are the best!
Read more

Truthfully

Image
LOVE... Love is an action word, "you do". The need to feel like your partner needs to do something to make you feel good is an indication that we are broken ourselves. We are looking for someone broken, to make us feel good about what we are yearning, whereas they, themselves are travelling through the journey of  life to make them feel good about their broken selves. We are a needy generation, and we are trying to feel our void with the wrong thing. Love serves. You do your part without expecting the same in return. You may be suprised that all your sowing will turn into something great that you never had in mind. Some enter the next relationship while they are still on the rebound. They enter while they are still broken and unsure if they are truly ready. When one is completely healed from the past, one is able to love without dragging the past into the current. There is no fun in not trusting in a relationship. Trying to find something wrong is an indication that...
Read more

Letting your child play

Image
Letting your child play P laying  allows children to use their creativity while developing their imagination, physical and emotional strength. Through play the child engage and interact with the world around them. When your child plays, it gives her lots of different ways and times to learn . Its also assist with development of a healthy brain. Young  children  can  develop  many skills through the power of  play . They may  develop  their language skills, emotions, creativity and social skills.  Play helps  to nurture imagination and gives a  child  a sense of adventure. This  helps  them  develop  the ability to concentrate . Allow your child to spontaneously  play, to play unstructured, naturally, voluntary. Allow the child to initiate activity through her curiosity, love of discovery, and enthusiasm.
Read more